Assholes circus

Most girls he dated seemed to say that to him,
he started to believe he was one;
2-3 years after most of those relationships,
he talked to the exes and ironed out issues.
Hhe found out that he wasn't really an asshole!
they had a part to play in every breakup.
He wasn't an asshole afterall

Yyou see from major media outlets aka tv, radio and movies .
these exes had grown up thinking that if a relationship did not work for whatever reason,
then its the guys fault:
they will always be the victim,
its never the 2 of them .
they learnt that the word for this situation is "you're an asshole"

So they started their dating lives calling every ex an asshole;
It takes a person with a good supply of self confidence,
to ignore the incessant chants of asshole directed at them.
Words have power.
In a way they have created a circus of assholes;
a bunch of guys who seem to believe they are assholes.
they might as well behave like assholes,
they seem to be called that anyways .

relationships are not social exhibitions;
make an effort while you're in it ;
don't play victim ;
don't hide behind social cliches.